ahhhh.

My grandmother, after making a date with me to disinherit me at length, has just told me I mistreated and ignored my ex and am a terrible, selfish person. I quote: apparently, I am slipshod in my appearance, "made no effort" to take care of him, focussed only on my father and my studies, and am a failure.

I wish this did not hurt, because she only wants to hurt me.
I just hope X does not believe this